Field Notes

Insight & Clarity

“I want to understand myself better”

162 articles, each clinically reviewed by our therapists. Page 1 of 17.

  1. Glass child: growing up as the sibling everyone assumed was fine

    A glass child is the sibling whose own needs go unseen because the family’s attention, time, and worry are rightly going to a brother or…

  2. Eldest daughter syndrome isn’t a diagnosis, but the pattern behind it is familiar

    The family group chat lights up about Dad’s surgery. Three siblings send a thumbs-up, and everyone waits for you to make the calls. Helping a…

  3. Parentification: when you grew up taking care of the adults in your house

    You found a word for your childhood, parentification, and it brought relief and grief at the same time. Maybe you packed your brother’s lunches, or…

  4. Shadow work: what Jung meant, and what helps in therapy

    It’s 11 p.m. There’s a saved video on your phone with twelve numbered shadow work prompts, and the notebook you bought just for this is…

  5. AI psychosis: what the term means, and what it doesn’t

    It’s 3 a.m., there’s still light under the door, and you can hear your partner typing. They’ve been in there since dinner. When you look…

  6. Limerence: why a crush becomes an obsession you can’t think your way out of

    Limerence is an involuntary, intrusive preoccupation with one specific person. What seems to keep it going is uncertainty about whether they feel the same way,…

  7. Primary and secondary emotions: why anger is usually guarding something softer

    You snapped at your partner about the dishwasher, and even while it was happening, you knew the dishwasher had nothing to do with it. That…

  8. How to protect your mental health: the habits that actually last

    You know a couple hundred people in this city, and you’re not sure who you’d call at 2 a.m. Your phone is full of contacts…

  9. Does money buy happiness? What the research actually says

    It’s 11 p.m. and you’re scrolling a job posting with a $30,000 bump, already doing the math on what the extra hours will cost you.…

  10. Enmeshment: when closeness with family starts to erase who you are

    You let your mother’s call go to voicemail because you have a deadline in twenty minutes, and then you carry the guilt for three days,…

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